By Eileen McCafferty
Look at the belongings that line the closets, draws,
and crevasses of your home. Do you ever feel that sometimes your belongings are
way too important to part with or that your stuff makes you who you are? It’s
common in society now to find our material possessions are taking over our
lives since we are bombarded with advertisements of how owning a certain
product is going to make us happy. And sometimes we can get addicted to
collecting things. There is a state of mind, however, that one can apply to one’s
life that might actually assist us in gaining back self-worth, create stronger
personal relationships and make us value what we do have. That mind set is
commonly referred to as minimalism.
Minimalists make decisions based on what they need
instead of everything they want. This is not to say throw everything in your
home away, and only keep food, clothes and a bed. But make purchases that hold
a true purpose to you. There are many benefits that come when you choose to begin
a minimal lifestyle: you free up space in your home, spend less money and time
on stuff, and begin to realize what is actually important to you.
When you have an untidy room, you feel better once you
have decluttered the mess and it can feel like you have relieved yourself of
mental clutter, as well. With less belongings, tidying up your room no longer
haunts your consciousness and gives you time to focus on family, friends, and
YOU!
The products on the market also come from somewhere:
The Earth. It takes resources to make, ship, advertise, and sell these
products. If we were to buy less, less would be produced and fewer resources
would be utilized. The reduction of the carbon footprint would be quite
tremendous if we slowed down our incessant shopping patterns.
Minimalism is almost defined by each person who
practices it and it is not to say that you can’t hold onto various things. If
you love to read, keep your books. If you love music, keep your CDs or your
records. If it makes you happy, those items serve a purpose. To start moving into
a smaller collection of stuff, look at each item and ask yourself a couple
questions:
1.
How frequently do I utilize this?
2. Does
this hold sentimental value to me?
3. Do
I have a real plan to use this?
4. Am
I holding onto this to fix, utilize, or wear in the future?
Minimalism brings you back to focus. In life there are essentials such as food, water, clothing, shelter. After that, you can take matters of the heart into consideration: family, relationships, friendships. If we focus more on buying the latest and greatest new gadget or knickknack, we are depleting ourselves of valuable time. You cannot bring your stuff with you when you die, but the memories you make will last forever. Less love for your stuff means more love to give to the people in your life, yourself, and to the Earth.
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